Expanding Your Upper Limit

How much happiness and success will you actually let yourself enjoy?

I remember getting a DM from a client who had been working so hard to hit some big goals, and she succeeded beautifully! She’d had an incredibly successful launch doing something she loved, was in her dream apartment, her finances were more abundant than ever, and she had amazing and fulfilling relationships in her life.

Her DM said, “I woke up this morning lookin for something to freak out about… what is that?!”

She’d surpassed her upper limit.

Each one of us has our own “Upper Limit.” The amount of success, happiness, and joy we feel “safe” to have.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

If we’re used to struggling, playing small, living in scarcity, and operating from a place of fear - stepping into the next level will feel hella uncomfortable. EVEN THOUGH YOU REALLY WANT IT.

This is why consistent mindset work is so IMPORTANT. Because if you’re not focusing on your mindset, you have a high risk of sabotaging yourself at your new level so you can get back into what’s safe.

Thankfully, that client leaned in. She did the mindset work. And now she’s showing up more fully than ever with confidence. She got used to that level and is getting ready to go to new heights. And this time, she knows how to handle the discomfort when she experiences it.🎉

Every new level is going to require a new mindset shift. This work never ends and is a layered process. I don’t care how big your dreams feel, they are possible. And if you want to get there and actually allow yourself to enjoy them, I suggest you add in mindset work to your daily routine.

You were meant for more than playing small and staying in your comfort zone. Lean in and do the inner work and watch how you thrive as a result.